Prove You Wrong...

As a girl who has always had a lot of guy friends I’m use to hearing all their stories. I’m the shoulder they cry on, the sensitive ear they rely on, and their fiercest comrade if called on. I love all my guy friends. They’re all so different yet continue to teach me something every day. One thing I have learned is how sensitive they really are. They hide it well…well some do…but when it comes to being hurt by someone it stays with them. The older they get the higher their emotional walls go…the more hopeless they feel about Love. Now, I also have to say..most men have HORRIBLE taste in women which is why they get hurt so often when ‘trying’ to walk down the plank of love. They’re easily distracted by a pretty face, so distracted they can’t see a woman with poor character who cares far more about herself then the well being of the person she’s dating. So..what happens? Let me tell you…the girl dumps the boy in usually a very cold insensitive way and I’m in my car on my way to his house trying to think of ways to make him laugh or at least smile on an otherwise horrible day. I don’t understand girls like that. The damage they cause to these amazing guys is so hard to repair for the next girl. I’ve been thinking about that a lot lately, I think because I’m the Next Girl.

I’m the girl who’s constantly trying to prove to my guy friends that not ALL girls are superficial, selfish, and heartless. There are amazing women out there in the world who will love them fiercely and loyally if only given the chance. I love the song below ‘Prove You Wrong’…because it’s all about letting go of someone not worth holding onto, so you can find someone who is. So girls…be kind to the Good Ones (you know who they are) and guys…attraction is important, but character needs to be your non-negotiable in dating. I promise a woman of character is far more valuable than a selfish trophy. ;-)